Boyfriend and College Trouble
Find a Conversation
| Sat, 01-21-2006 - 11:36pm |
Hey,
I just recently hooked up with this boy who I liked for a month before we hooked up and turns out he has been liking me longer than I even liked him. The issue of his age came into play being that I didn't know he was 2 years younger than me, but we still hooked up anyway because there were relationships like that throughout school where the girl was older than the boy. My issue is I'm on my way to college Sept. 2006 and its located in Miami and we live in Tampa. Were trying to decide whether we should discontinue the relationship before we catch serious feelings when the time comes. So I made it clear I wanted to stay together and so did he.
I've been told that once I go off to college that I would forget about him because there are just to many "fine" guys in Miami , but thats how the women are in my family not me. I don't even take a second look at guys when I'm in a relationship, even in my previous long distance relationship I was like that and we were states away not 4 hours. When I'm with someone I'm truly with someone. I'm just confused on what I should do and how to reassure my boyfriend that I would never break his heart. I dont know maybe something I can do on Valentine's day. Plus he's was in a long distance relationship and he broke it off, but they had been going out for only 2 months before it went long distance so i feel there weren't as close as we would be after 8 months. But still................it makes me nervous that he may still get tired of the distance and dump me.
T.K.

Question:
Yeah I guess I am overthinking it. I guess I'm trying to make sure everything is planned perfectly since I'm so used to my life being planned out without having any mistakes to learn from and avoiding them most of them time. I'm just trying to avoid making the mistakes the women in my family are making (except for my mom). They're always complain about how they messed up every good relationship they came across.
Oh and yess it's going to be a while before I leave for college.