Boyfriend Away

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Registered: 12-29-2006
Boyfriend Away
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Fri, 11-23-2007 - 10:44am
My boyfriend has been away for about three weeks, he is not too far away, he is staying near a hospital where his youngest daughter is at.
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Registered: 04-02-2007
In reply to: pebbles579
Fri, 11-23-2007 - 2:04pm

Do you have any friends, family close by? Re connect with them. Start a journal of your thoughts. Is there anything that you are interested in..... books, movies, a class that you would like to take, volunteering with an organization, gardening, sports, music, museums? What kind of activities were you involved in before your bf came into the picture?

Find something you are interested in and start with that, but don't only do that until your bf comes back, continue afterwards. You need other things in your life besides your bf...get some self help books. You need to be a complete person in your own right and have a life of your own, and your relationship with the bf should compliment that, not complete it.

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Registered: 12-29-2006
In reply to: pebbles579
Fri, 11-23-2007 - 2:55pm
Thank you sassisizz for your advice.