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boyfriend sneeking around on the net
| Sat, 07-22-2006 - 5:10pm |
So i have an issue. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 mths. We started dating in March. The other day he left to go somewhere, and he left his hotmail open. I really didn't want to look at his email, but my curiosity got the best of me. Now I know he would never cheat on me, but for some reason i'm having a really hard time trusting him. He works out of town, and I know for a fact he gets lonely, he could EASILY be cheating on me while he's away and i would never find out. So i went into his email and he had an email from an "adult personals" website. He had requested his lost password last week. So i wrote down his user name and passoword and logged in to the site. He had messages from all these different women that live in the SAME city! However the messages were from way back in January, before we even started dating. So my question is, why on earth would he want his password? I asked if he'd ever cheated on me, or even been engaging in online converstations with girls the other day, and he said no. Since then he has been acting very very strange. Before he was looking to buy a bigger place ( i'm thinking it was so i could move in) when i asked him this morning if he had called about the place, he blew up on me and said he couldn't afford it and that it was too much of an investment and he had too many other important things going on right now. Do you think he is offended that i asked him if he had ever cheated on me? What do i do?? This makes me feel sick!! I feel extrememly guilty that i looked at his email!!! HELP!!

peachy_keen18...
Pianoguy noticed (after reading your post twice) that just because you have been dating this man for 4 months...there was never a single mention of the word: EXCLUSIVITY!
Just because you date somebody for 4 months doesn't automatically guarantee that you are the ONLY woman in this man's life....unless he has told specifically that you are?
Sorry...but your curiosity to see what was in his email file pretty much poured "cold water" on your relationship! I can't buy into your excuse that you "didn't really want to look at his email"----because if you honestly felt that way....you wouldn't have!
You certainly are entitled to have all the doubts you want about his character, but that doesn't give you permission to BECOME A PRIVATE EYE & SNOOP WHILE HE'S AWAY!
Pianoguy