boyfriend's grandmother's funeral
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boyfriend's grandmother's funeral
| Mon, 06-11-2007 - 9:35am |
My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. His grandmother died last week. The funeral is in two days, and its a 5 hour drive from me. I'm in my busiest time of year at work (I work for the state legislature and our legislative session ends next week), and it would be a huge hassle for me to go to the funeral. My boyfriend isn't very sad about his grandmother's passing, mostly because she's been "gone" for many years with severe dementia. He has said that he'd like to have me there, but would understand if I can't make it. Should I go? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

He does understand, and you would go if it was possible - maybe make a donation in her name or send huge floral bouquet - do something special so that you show you care