breaking up - for guys

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-01-2004
breaking up - for guys
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Thu, 05-13-2004 - 4:08pm
When a person knows that the relationship is not going to work out, the first thing that a person do is to break it up. So why is it that guys tend to be mean about it instead of accepting reality? What's the point in doing so?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2003
Thu, 05-13-2004 - 4:12pm
hmmmmmmm, I was just sitting here wondering the same thing about women!!

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-01-2004
Thu, 05-13-2004 - 5:04pm
Does it get better as time goes by or is this how it's going to be forever? I was hoping we can be in good terms.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2003
Thu, 05-13-2004 - 5:11pm
Honestly, I don't know... it has worked for some but not in my case... for me, over is over and done is done... it's hard to regress to the point of being just friends I think...

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Thu, 05-13-2004 - 5:38pm

I think Terry said it best. But here's another saying: "Hurt people hurt."

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-01-2004
Thu, 05-13-2004 - 9:02pm
I just figured he was never serious about us that's why he kept playing games that eventually became too much for me to handle so I broke up with him. I was surprised to know he's even hurt but in a way it does make sense. I understand now. Thank you!