Breasts like a woman's

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Registered: 10-27-2003
Breasts like a woman's
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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 11:49am
He's wonderful, kind, thoughtful, a good kisser and a great cuddler.
But he has breasts like a woman's that sag over his pot belly.
I almost worry if he has a health condition (he's 50)
should I ask him about it or should I dump him for someone better looking (not that better looking men ever give me the time of day)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 1:09pm

If you can't accept him AS IS, then move on.

It would be *beyond* tacky to ask him about that!!!

Sheri

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Registered: 10-27-2003
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 3:26pm
So what you're saying is he's not good enough for me
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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 3:32pm
Umm, no.

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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 3:36pm

Uh, no (where did *that* come from???). I'm just saying that if you can't accept him as is, you should move on and that it would be rude to ask him about his physical appearance!!!

Sheri

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Registered: 03-27-2004
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 9:49pm

I'm a doctor. He might have Klinefelter's syndrome. It isn't that rare. Give it a Google look-see to find out about it. If he does, than there isn't much he can do about the breasts except get reduction surgery.

I'm with Sheri, if you don't find him attractive, don't torture the poor guy. Move on, but don't tell him why if there isn't much he can do about it. We all have our inherited crosses to bear!!

Chick

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 7:41pm

I'd be worried about his health.

Are you able to overlook his physical defects and see past them?

You have said that, better looking men wouldn't give me the time of day. He if has all those good qualities that you said, maybe you should overlook those big breasts.

It's your choice.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 06-03-2006 - 3:57pm
Sounds like he has great qualities and you enjoy his kissing and hugging. That sounds pretty good to me. If you bring up the breasts obviously you would have to be so very, very tactful. It shouldn't be a direct comment, maybe more about how you feel you want to exercise more to get in shape for bathing suit weather and see how he responds.
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