Bring the advice ladies and fellas.....

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Registered: 01-24-2004
Bring the advice ladies and fellas.....
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Thu, 02-12-2004 - 8:12pm
I told you all before about a guy I knew since highschool who said he wanted to be with me...we have been dating off and on since November 2003...Anyway I told you how our last date went really well and he said he didn't want me to leave, to be his girlfriend, my Valentines plans and then all of a sudden he stopped calling me. Then, mistake, I called him a couple times and he said he would call me right back and never did...

Well, update...he left me a message a few days ago and told me that although it has been a while since we talked, I have been on his mind and to call him when I could...

Just want some feedback. It's been 3 days and I haven't returned his call. How should I handle this?

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Registered: 01-24-2004
Sun, 02-15-2004 - 4:07pm
Again, thanks for all your advice. It is truely good the hear feedback on these situations. I think in your situation, laying it down was cool because you and him were in a relationship. With the guy I am referring to, we are not together and he has no commitment to me. It hasn't progressed that far yet...we started going out again in Nov.

So, I look like a fool to be mad at him. He is simply dating other people to see who he wants to be with. And that's cool. The next time he calls me, I will not be available to him. He will have to make time for me on his own the right way because I won't be there. That is what I have decided to do---absolutely nothing. Whenever I don't call him back or when he can't reach me, he always says something to me about it. So when he can't reach me enough, he should be apt to try harder.

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