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broke up?
| Fri, 05-21-2004 - 3:47pm |
I have been dating 36 yrs old guy for 8 month. He is a fun, sweet smart guy. We had a lot fun time together. I like him, but I haven’t told him until 2 weeks ago. We see each other twice a week. We went to some short trips and one 4 days trip. We are going slow and smooth. We were pretty serious. However, lately there are a lot things changing. He was going to change his job and my sister is getting married. He canceled the dates several times. Sometimes, he was late. He might under a pressure, but he doesn’t talk too much about it. Then last Tuesday, we meet for a coffee. He didn’t talk much. Then later on back to my place, he told me that he felt he wasn’t serious. I didn’t know what to say. We didn’t talk much about it. Next morning, he left really early and told me we will talk later. He called me after work. I was about to going out which planned last week. I told him to call tomorrow. He said he will call later, otherwise he will call tomorrow. However, he didn’t call. I left him message last night to ask him if he likes to meet for a coffee. He emailed this morning and he said he can’t make it, but he will call. I wonder if we broke up or not? Does he still want to be together? He doesn’t want to meet just for tonight or for ever? Does he got cold foot or something? Should I think we broke up already? Why does he really want to talk on Wednesday, but not now? Does he want to call to comfort me?
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| Fri, 05-21-2004 - 3:59pm |

Hello april4hope!
| Fri, 05-21-2004 - 4:07pm |
Don't assume anything because you don't know what he has on his mind. From what you are describing how he is acting, yes he does have a lot on his mind. Just wait till he's ready to talk and then you will see then what is really bothering him.
