broke up and got back together
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broke up and got back together
| Sat, 05-08-2004 - 11:08pm |
the boyfriend and i went out for almost 2 years and then he kicked me out kind of suddenly and we talked and he decided he had some stuff he needed to do to get happy. so i gave him his space.. after our talk i didnt email or talk to him for a week then he called me and wanted to hang out..we have been hanging out since then once or twice a week. this last week he asked me over three nights in a row. he has an online account with match.com and has winks and im's from girls in the area.. that bugs me but i dont want to aske him because i love him and dont want to mess things up.. He also probaly hasnt told his parents who are awesome that we are hanging out again.. hes also telling friends on line that im his girlfriend. I just want to know where i stand and any advise would be appriciated.
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Your situation seems rather confusing.. he's tellin ppl u r his gf but he is hooked up w 'match.com'. seems like this guys wans e best of both girls'- U & other girls (as spares?)
Do you like him a lot? How long hv u been together? I get this feeling u do like him a lot coz u went back to him despite his indecisiveness.
If you wanna give it another shot, u can.. but pls guard your heart. It's e most presious pocession u own & it should be given to only someone who will treat it right- like a treasure. Try being frens, put some distance 1st & see what he's up to. Also let him know that he must treat u proper if not forget it! no half-hearted attempt. either be frens or gf-bf. dun let him confuse u on whether u r his gf or fren. make it clear. no intimacy for now.. dun get urself more hurt until things are stable. u deserve beta.
all e best!
ah well im sure everything will work its self out in the end.
yeahhh