To call or not??

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Registered: 06-28-2005
To call or not??
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Thu, 01-12-2006 - 3:51pm

A couple of weeks ago my friend gave my number to her fiance's fire fighter buddy. So he called a few days ago and we hit it off great on the phone and decided after a few conversations we were going to get together last night. We planned on meeting at his house because he wanted to take me to a sushi place in the next town. I was immediately attracted to him and could tell him was nervous. He said he was not good at this and never did anything like this before. We had great conversation and he made me laugh.

We drove back to his house and he said I was more than welcome to come in and I declined because I had to work early. He gave me a hug goodbye and I kissed him on the cheek. He said he hoped that I had a good time and I said I did. He said to drive safe home. I said ok, talk with you soon, he said ok, see ya. This is where it is a little shady. What does see ya imply? Maybe he was nervous and didn't want to ask me out again on the spot or maybe he just wasn't interested in seeing me again. I don't know. I don't think I should call him, if he would like to see me again he will call even if he is unsure of my feelings, right? Just confused, can never tell anymore.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 01-12-2006 - 4:03pm

Your instinct is right...don't call him. He'll call if he's interested in seeing you again.

Sheri

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Registered: 11-24-2004
Thu, 01-12-2006 - 4:24pm
Sounds like he wanted you to come in for a night cap and have sex. You didn't take him up on his "offer", so he said "see ya".

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Registered: 06-28-2005
Thu, 01-12-2006 - 4:31pm
I should have specified, his father was in town and he said I was more than welcome to come in but he was going to ask me a million questions and I said no thats ok. I don't think that was his intention