called, but haven't heard anything since

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Registered: 11-12-2004
called, but haven't heard anything since
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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 9:24am
i told him that i felt he needed time to think things through, and that he should call me when he figures out what he wants to do, but i would not call him, and i would not bother him until then. last Friday, i was out when he finally did call. i was informed of this when i got back, and that he had said he would call me back. it's been a week now, and he still hasn't called me back. i don't know exactly what to do now. i said i wouldn't call, but i am wondering if that is what he wants. i don't want to bother him, just in case he is still contemplating over everything. but i don't want to not call him, and have him think that i am giving him the cold shoulder or something. so, what should i do? i am thinking that i should just wait and see if he calls today, and if he doesn't, then just forget about it. but i am not sure. what do you think?? thanks for the advice.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 7:52pm
You had your chance last Friday to call him back and get that out of your system, but now it's too late for that. If he's interested he'll call, but don't hold your breath.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-11-2004
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 8:23pm
Ahh< its you who thought nice thoughts re my problem. Listen there is a site:

http://www.enotalone.com/article/2726.html It is enotalone.com and the article is: Dont call that man. sometimes you have to read it and read it.

I didnt call my person --he called me but only to ask me to go see a house he will buy. Now that sounds nice but its really just because having a woman with you looks nice when you buy a 4-5 bedroom house. I asked , in a light tone --can I stay over night in THAT house since you dont seem to want me in yours? he laughed and said the cat was in charge of that and I would have to ask him. ouch.

Soo, catch on with yours --he's more obvious: dont call --you are too nice --turn elsewhere.
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Registered: 06-20-2004
Sat, 11-13-2004 - 7:15am
Nope I wouldn't call at all. For whatever reason you gave him an ultimatum (you don't explain why in your post) leaving the ball in his court to call you. He called once, said he'd call back and hasn't. I think the message is clear, he's really not that interested.