calling an ex to spend the night

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2004
calling an ex to spend the night
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Sun, 08-22-2004 - 5:22am
It has only been three weeks since I broke up with my ex. I just got home from going out but I still really want to be with him tonight. Is it a good idea to call or does that seem like a desparate attempt to get back together? I miss him and I'm lonely, but I just really miss a companionship right now. What should I do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2003
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 2:14pm
Find companionship on a side....DO NOT call him!!!!!!!!Let him think of you with respect. If you call you'll regret SO much.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 4:24pm
jennivz...

Pianoguy knows EXACTLY how you're feeling! He has had to put up with a lot of "Lonely Days and Lonely Nights" (to quote the tune by THE BEEGEES).

But if you 'cave in and call him'---you WON'T move forward!

Allow yourself the luxury of enjoying some quiet time alone. It's not easy, but you can do it! If you're really desperate...purchase a stuffed bear, moose or some other animal...and give it an occasional hug! The most important thing to realize is that you have begun "a brand new journey" in your life. And by going backwards (with that phone call)...you're not gonna get very far!

Hang in there...you'll get past this!

Pianoguy