Can anybody explain his male behavior?
Okay, dated this guy off & on for 3 months. He told me he loved me & never wanted to lose me-- but we constantly fought--- fought about minute things. He tried to control my life--- not wanting me to hang out with my friends, cussing me out, cussing my friends out--- gave me rules & stipulations for us dating. Well finally we broke up--- pretty mutual... I was tired of being controlled & he was tired of trying to control the uncontrollable me. Well it's only been a few days & he has been writing me awfully mean text messages & emails. & will call only to be a complete jerk. I don't understand why & how this happened. I mean I tried everything to keep him happy aside from letting him control my life. & if he "loved" me like he said he did how does he have the nerve to be badmouthing me & calling me names & saying things such as, "I regret wasting so much money & time on you," & " I wish I had cheated on you, (he has now convinced himself that i was unfaithful) (WHICH I AM COMPLETELY LOYAL!!!!), cusses me out, calls me names, etc. Why is he acting in this cruel & uncalled for behavior? WHy all the hatred for me now--- Can people actually go from wanting to marry somebody to absolutely hating them & cursing them for everything they are worth? Please if anybody can give me ANY explantions as to his behavior- it would be MUCH appreciated!