Can i give up?
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Can i give up?
| Tue, 10-19-2004 - 10:16pm |
I feel like giving up. I have been single for over two years and its feeling like i am in a store and i know what i am looking for is not there. So why am i wasting my time hoping that what i want will show up? Cause its not in the store and it never will be so why am i wasting my time?

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Squeak,
Guess what?
There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with you.
It's not your attitude.
It's not the clothes you wear.
It's not the company you keep, or don't keep.
You are just at a point on your journey of life where you happen to be single. Nothing more, nothing less. It's okay to feel negative about it. Goodness knows I've been there. I get frustrated. I let myself feel the frustration. It passes, then I focus on the things that make me happy. When I do that, I feel more trusting and positive about life.
I suggest that you DON'T change ANYTHING about you until you are clear on your motivation for change. If it feels good to wear lipstick, do it (I don't like personally). If you want to wear a hot-mama skirt, go ahead. That's only if that's what you want to do.
I know it's frustrating when it feels like you've tried everything, and you don't know when things are going to change. Sometimes, there are things you can do to move things along. Other times, no matter what you do, it's out of your hands. All you can do is trust the process of life.
My only suggestion is to accept how you feel about your life as it is right now, and come back to vent if you need to. Try the other suggestions after you've checked-in with yourself. Whatever you do, try to remember that life has not forgotten about you.
A~
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