Can I learn from last fail dating?
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| Tue, 08-17-2004 - 7:13pm |
Thanks for reading. I met up with a guy whom I know online on Monday. He seems a nice person. I would like to know him better. He texted me right after the first meet & said that he would like to know me more. He rang me at the same night. We had good talk. He set another date on Friday nite for dinner before he is leaving for a business trip on Sunday. Everything seems fine. But I started to worry. I used to have an experience not long time ago. The guy whom I quite liked showed the interest at first, but he decided to break up & went back to his previous girl friend when I show out my interest to him. Here comes my questions: Should I email him today? (He didn't ring yesterday, which I think ok. I dont' think he should call everyday)I would like to let him know that I am interested in knowing him more, but I dont' want to scare him away. Should I always wait him to contact me first?
Thank you very much for any input.

He knows you're interested...you accepted the date, right?
And there are no guarantees in dating...even when you're married, there are no guarantees. Take things slowly, take everything in the early stages with a huge grain of salt, and remember that it takes a good 4-6 months of dating to begin to know if someone has the potential to be right for you. That's all you can do...reduce the risk, but you can't eliminate it.
Sheri