Actually I'm feeling really discouraged now. I saw him talking to another girl today, I used to think that they had something going on, but then I haven't seen them together for months. Now I see them walking out together today. I don't know how to read this girl either. She scowls at all other girls and is lovey dovey towards guys.
You're not alone in being uncertain how to flirt. Why not mention you're going to do this demo and you're a little nervous - hoping for friendly faces!
Well we had the presentation today, he was quiet most of the time because he is the IT guy and the discussion didn't actually have much to do with him. He did jump in a little bit. Afterwords, I asked him to join my dept. for our Thanksgiving potluck. We chatted for a bit too. He didn't eat with us, but I saw him pop in for a bit, so I guess that's a start. And he did come down to see me about something that he really could have much more easily emailed me about, like he normally does. ;) that probably doesn't mean much, but today he was more chatty than normal at least. Thanks all for the advice, I'm sure I will need more encouragement as it goes on..so don't go anywhere pleeaase!
At the end of one of your email exchanges you can tell him "I really like talking to you."
Carrie
There are many ways to spark conversation that could move you in the desired direction.
Z
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