Can it be real?
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Can it be real?
| Wed, 01-17-2007 - 3:39pm |
I guess I’m probably asking a question that many people have already asked but here it goes again. Is it possible to connect with someone so well in a short period of time that you already feel that you love them and want to spend your life with them? Don’t get me wrong, I’m not rushing into anything crazy. I’m not that kind of person to do things irrationally but I truly feel that there is that permanent connection there. And the funny thing is, is that he feels the same way. I hadn’t shared my feelings because I just thought I was being crazy but he started talking to me one day about it and it’s like he was talking out of MY head. Any thoughts or suggestions? All advice is welcome. Thanks.

OMG! I cant believe this is happening to someone else too. I just was trying to start a new thread here about the same feeling I have about a guy. Its so much driving me crazy! I could not sleep the entire last night since I felt he was always in front of my eyes. I was thinking of him, what we spoke the other day, how and what questions he asked, when he was shy etc etc! I was /am really happy but I also have a fear of where this might go and if I am dreaming too much!
Yes, maybe we should start believing in this! Good luck to you :-)
I absolutely think it CAN be real, but the only way to know for sure is to allow time to pass.
I've definitely had that feeling several times in my life and only once (so far!) did it turn out to be a lasting relationship (well, it lasted 10 years, at least). The other times, even though I felt that way, it wasn't meant to be and things turned bad within about 3-6 months. But because I was so ga-ga with the "I just know" feelings, I didn't pay enough attention to the bad signs and I stayed in a couple of those relationships way too long.
So now I enjoy the feeling but I make "time will tell" my mantra.
Sheri
When I kissed my husband for the first time the earth shook. I knew he was the man I was going to marry. Only a few weeks after that magical kiss, we decided to move in together. We've been happily married for ten years and he is my soul mate. We both knew how unique our relationship was from the start.
If you know it in your heart, go with it. Its so hard to find the perfect person.
Good Luck!