Can this just be a weird CHANCE or FATE?
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Can this just be a weird CHANCE or FATE?
| Mon, 07-05-2004 - 11:00pm |
I am a 39 year old woman and I feel silly even asking this question but,
after all that has happened I just had to. Could it mean something if you keep bumping into the same person all the time? I know some say you can be looking for something and it is right in you face all the time. This is my story about 8 years ago my husband and I separated and I took a job in the city. I used to take an early train and everyday you usually see some of the same faces. There was one particular guy that I would see every morning and he stood near me on the platform one day I noticed him staring at me. I stared back but this is all that went on for months.
He never said a word but every morning we had this body language thing going on between us. I was afraid to speak for fear of sounding stupid. I even saw him in the neighborhood bar on many occasions with friends or with a different girl. I figure he must be married or taken. I even ran into him once at a Nightspot far from where we live and again we just stared at each other.
I had not seen this guy since last year on my birthday when I was in the local place.
I think he must have moved from the neighborhood.
Well I just started a new job last Monday and when it was time to step out for lunch, Guess who I saw walking out the door of my office??? Yes him!!!! We work not only in the same Company but we are sitting in the Same Room???? IN NEW YORK CITY ???
I want to say hello but this has gone on far too long! It feels awkward
WHAT DO I DO????
after all that has happened I just had to. Could it mean something if you keep bumping into the same person all the time? I know some say you can be looking for something and it is right in you face all the time. This is my story about 8 years ago my husband and I separated and I took a job in the city. I used to take an early train and everyday you usually see some of the same faces. There was one particular guy that I would see every morning and he stood near me on the platform one day I noticed him staring at me. I stared back but this is all that went on for months.
He never said a word but every morning we had this body language thing going on between us. I was afraid to speak for fear of sounding stupid. I even saw him in the neighborhood bar on many occasions with friends or with a different girl. I figure he must be married or taken. I even ran into him once at a Nightspot far from where we live and again we just stared at each other.
I had not seen this guy since last year on my birthday when I was in the local place.
I think he must have moved from the neighborhood.
Well I just started a new job last Monday and when it was time to step out for lunch, Guess who I saw walking out the door of my office??? Yes him!!!! We work not only in the same Company but we are sitting in the Same Room???? IN NEW YORK CITY ???
I want to say hello but this has gone on far too long! It feels awkward
WHAT DO I DO????
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| Tue, 07-06-2004 - 10:15pm |
Hello senoral!
| Wed, 07-07-2004 - 5:27pm |
I agree that you should talk to him. Saying something like, "hey, did you used to take the ___ train from ___ ?" If he says yes, you can say that you thought you recognized his face. Then you could talk about the neighborhood since you have that in common.

