Can a man fake love?
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| Tue, 09-28-2004 - 9:05pm |
Hi all. I am dating my boyfriend of 6 months who as some of you might know ended up putting out an add on a website personal for a girl of asian persuasion so that he can "serve" . Since then we have talked it out and he says the reason he did this is because he was starting to resent me because I was depressed all the time and he didn't know why. I told him I was depressed because of personal issues and also because I was scared to date someone like him from the beginning as he is so much better looking than me and I'm afraid he'll stray. It seems we made a break through and we went on a wonderful trip to New York and everything is fine. I am convinced that he loves me and that he does have some wierd kinks that he has to work out in the fantasy world. Such as he would talk to other girls on the net but it's me he spends all of his time with and spoils and such. I am not sure if I can accept this and it is kind of risky but have to give it a shot because I do love this man. His parents are visiting and staying with us for 2 weeks and I get along really well with them and my boyfriend has been so very loving. He will wrestle me when we're alone and ask me to say I love him, that it's good to hear that I love him and the other day I said something like I would always love him and he said that's the nicest thing I have ever said to him. I know throughout the relationship I have held back and have threatened to break up with him several times so I am sure he has some sort of complex that another girl on the net could fix so I am thinking if I fix it and make him feel secure then he would nto do things like that. I know in the beginning of the relationship I would threaten to break up with him and always think the worst of him because I thought he was a playboy. Anyways my question is , can men fake it when they introduce you to their parents ( whom I know he loves to death and want them to have a high opinion of him). They keep on hinting that they are so happy to have me as apart of their family and are expressing their high hopes of us one day having children. My boyfriend will tell me " you know you 're going to be my wife" so on and so forth . My question is can a guy really fake loving a girl and if so how can I tell? He has been so very supportive and loving and attentive and wanting to work with me any way to make me feel happy. Any help would be great! Thanks.

A man does not stick around a woman too long, or too passionately if the only thing that attracts him is her outter beauty. being smart, independent, compassionate are traits that make a 'regular' woman into a beauty queen, and every woman should be treated as such. do not accept anything less, but first you have to see urself in a better light.
My ex-bf introduced me to his parents, and even took me to all the family functions and holidays. But he didn't love me. The fact was, he just needed someone to take home to his parents, so I was officially his "girlfriend" for family purposes, but he dated others behind my back. He also put up an internet ad looking for another woman. He had IMs from different women popping up on his computer screen. I do think a person can fake being in love, if he/she really wants to.