Can someone give me some good advice?

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Registered: 09-06-2004
Can someone give me some good advice?
Mon, 09-06-2004 - 6:20pm
I met this guy not too long ago and we had started dating. The last time I went on a date with him, we went to a street festival and had lots of fun. All day he had been very affectionate, hugging me, puting his arms around me, and holding my hand which I thought was very sweet. Later on that night, I went back to his house and decided to take a short nap before I went home, only because I had been drinking a little and I wanted to sleep it off. He ended up laying next to me and that led to some heavy kissing and making out. It got really late and I left.



The next time we went out he envited me to a party that his frat friends were giving. To make a long story short, the party ended up getting shut down by the police an hour after I got there. He sensed my disappointment and gave me the gas money I had used to get there and suggested we go to a friends house. After that he walked me back to my car and I gave him a hug and a kiss. I did not sense any hesitation, but something was bothering me. I called him back to my car and asked him if he was still interested in me and he said, "Yes, But leaning more toward friends." He asked me if I was mad and I answered no, but inside my heart was crushed. He had been the only guy that I had even considered as a boyfriend in a long time. He had always given me compliments on how hot he thought I was and I didn't understand how he had changed his feelings so suddenly.

What should I make of this? :(