Can we ever be friends again?
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Can we ever be friends again?
| Wed, 07-21-2004 - 12:20pm |
E. and I have been friends for over 12 years (we went to college together). When I relocated to his town 3 years ago, he let me stay with him until I got settled. That lasted for 2 years. During that time, we became very intimate. After about a year, I started to develop feelings for him that went beyond just being very good friends. From his actions, I kinda got the impression that maybe he did too. I moved out 8 months ago into my own apartment, but we continued our "friends with benefits" arrangement. We recently had a disagreement and in the process of talking out our issues, I confessed that I have feelings for him. He told me that I would always be a very special friend, but that he wasn't willing to be more than that. I have been crying for 24 hours. He wants to be friends again, but I can't even bear to think about even being in the same room together. I told him that I probably wouldn't be around much, and that seemed to bother him a little. My friends all say I should move on, because I've already wasted 3 years on a relationship that is never going to go anywhere. I know they're right, but it hurts so much!
Any advice on how to move on and try to be friends again? I certainly would appreciate it.
Any advice on how to move on and try to be friends again? I certainly would appreciate it.
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| Wed, 07-21-2004 - 5:38pm |
Hello pulchrandi!
