Can a woman ask a man out on a firstdate
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| Thu, 01-12-2006 - 8:10pm |
In one of my college classes, I have the biggest crush on the TA. I kinda get a feeling that he is attracted to me. I can confidently say that by his actions. When we have student/TA conferences, he always puts me till the end and waits till everyone is gone before he talks to me. One time I tried to go first and he put me last.
I missed one class and he was asking my classmates about me and he never asked about anyone else missing classes etc.
I feel we definately have an attraction towards each other. The term ends next week. I have talked to my friends and they all suggested I ask him out. First of all, I have never asked a man out on a first date. Is that acceptable. Secondly, he is my TA. Can I still ask him out. After next he won't be though as classes end.
Help!! I need suggestions!!
Thanks :-)

Once again, there is no rule about asking a man out, whether the first date or 21st date.
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I would perhaps go upto him the last day, and talk something about how the class was. I guess you might have to make sure there is no one else around? Give him some time to say something to you. Give him some space in the conversation to initiate something else. If he still doesn't, then either he is very shy, or there is some other reason stopping him. It's possible he has a GF. It's also possible he feels it's inappropriate to take that step with a student. Asking him if you'd like to join him for coffee sometime doesn't sound bad! But do that "after" you have given him a little chance to say something. His answer should surely give you more clarification. Be prepared for anything. Feel good about yourself, whatever the outcome. Goodluck!!
Definetly!