can you forgive a cheater?
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can you forgive a cheater?
| Thu, 11-03-2005 - 10:18am |
i was wondering....is it possible to forgive someone who has cheated on you and have a fullfilling, faithful relationship afterwards? anyone have any stories where this actually happened? is it possible to trust them again?

It's not easy and depends on many factors - the both of you have to be willing to take a long, hard look at yourselves, the relationship and what went wrong. Is he truly sorry? is this a one-time thing? Couples counseling might be something to try...
In the end if you can put it back together it might be even stronger than before. But if you can't at least you'll know you gave it all you had so don't have to be left with what-ifs?