Cant fall asleep at my boyfriends house?
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| Mon, 04-02-2007 - 7:52pm |
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months. I'm 24, and he's 28. This is my second serious relationship. I'm happy, he's happy.. we're very good communicators.. and we don't 'hold anything back'. We don't live together, but he does spend a significant amount of time at my apartment. I've lived in the same apartment for about 3 years, alone. He lived with his bestfriend in a house. When we spend the night together, it's at my apartment. However, I've tried 3 times now to sleep at his place.. most recently on Saturday night. The problem is, I can't sleep. I went to bed at about 2am, and just layed there.. fell asleep for maybe an hour or two around 7am. We've spent the night in hotels without a problem.
I'm a very clean person.. and like to keep things very tidy. He's clean, but his roommate isn't very. They have two dogs and a cat.. and honestly, the place is a mess whenever I go there. My boyfriend cleans up once arrive (he doesn't spend much time at home) and keeps his room pretty tidy, but I'm wondering if the cleaniless is really getting to me. I have a cat, so I don't think it's an allergy problem.
I don't know what to do! One of the dogs is his, so I feel bad that he doesn't get to spend as much time with his dog as he's like. Any advice? Thanks in advance.

Ok, sorry advice thoughts of questions. call it food for thought. SMILE
Thank you for all your replies. I apologize for my delay in response - I don't have constant internet access. As far as bringing the dog to my place, that isn't possible - my complex doesn't allow dogs. I've had occasional stress-related sleep loss, but nothing for well over a year and I've been fine in hotels. I suspect it's my comfort level, as I'm just not comfortable there. So, I guess there isn't anything I can do!
Again, thank for you for the replies! I appreciate all of your input.