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| Sun, 10-17-2004 - 8:00pm |
Actually, my problem lies in the fact that I’ve never dated before and I’ve never dealt with guys that much, and so, I can’t understand their personalities as I do with girls.
The main Problem lies in the fact that I’ve been employed a week ago. The guy (H) whom I met on the interview day was really nice, gentle, and light-spirited. I liked him so much.Thank God, I aced the interview and I got the job. Actually, (H) and I don’t work at the same place. But he drops in every now and then. His office is in a nearby building.
Whenever he comes in my office, he starts making up jokes, bringing up issues trying to let me talk a bit. You know. I’m new in the place and little bit stressed because I am still not used to the job. Sometimes i feel like he admires me. But that really makes me confused. Is he interested? Playing around with a new innocent girl? a gentle guy who’s trying to let me feel at ease.
I am interested. But I don’t know how he feels. I wanna know. Give me signs. Hints to help me find out. And if he’s not interested how can I let him be interested.
I’ve something to add. Whenever he��s in my office (bearing in mind that my office is often crowded) I really feel confused and my head is steaming up. No one notice (thank God I can hide that). But I don’t wanna feel that confused even between me and myself.
Please tell me. What am I supposed to do?
P.S. bear in mind I come from a traditional Middle-Eastern country. Girls are not supposed to be very awkward.
Thanks for your Help,
Sincerely yours,
E.H.

Actually, as a Middle-Eastern girl, I'm not supposed to ask a Man for a date. That would be very awkward action and i don't wanna frighten him.
Hope you'd have another solution for me.Thanks.:)