Caving after a week???
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Caving after a week???
| Tue, 07-24-2007 - 4:05pm |
I've been seeing this guy for a week. Haven't heard from him in four days. Could he be caving already?? I called him two days ago, he didn't answer :-( (I know I know.....I'm stupid.) No more calling....

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Since I am not into games...you may want to pay closer attention to the advise of the seasoned veterans on the board who have been through it.
You do have options:
1)play the unavailable game back and have no mercy - but no real connection or relationship may develop from it - thus call him back maybe in a few days.
2)try to get to know him anyway...but if he is into games how can you be assured that he will not pull the rug out from under you later if you do end up feeling for the guy?- call him back when you feel comfortable and get to know him on the phone a bit before going out with him.
3)play the coy yet available game and see what happens...keeping his attempts at game playing in the back of your mind so that you do not fall so fast for the guy. - meaning..you wait a day or so and call back with a real casual attitude.
4)forget about him and not call back at all.
Most (normal, non-stalker) guys won't call again if their call is not returned, as they would assume that's a sign the woman is no longer interested in them (and they'd be right in many cases).
So unless she wants to send a signal that she's no longer interested, she should return the call.
Sheri
Umm, NO.
So being immature and rude and "punishing" him or "giving him a taste of his own medicine" is a good idea?
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