Caving after a week???
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Caving after a week???
| Tue, 07-24-2007 - 4:05pm |
I've been seeing this guy for a week. Haven't heard from him in four days. Could he be caving already?? I called him two days ago, he didn't answer :-( (I know I know.....I'm stupid.) No more calling....

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Uh, no. Four days is hardly a long time!
Well, sure.
Oh, of course when it comes to the OP reason and communication comes first.
I agree with your statement: "If it takes me having to be rude in order to get my message across. That's just not worth it to me." But I'm seeing that this world kind of changed and everyone is in a ME FIRST mentality and not just that, they are, for some reason, unable to see anything from anyone else's point of view. Obviously you are able to still see things from different vantage points, as well as I.
"And if I do communicate what I want and that person continues to behave in the same way they always have, then I can choose to take myself out of that equation."--->always the best alternative for me as well. But think about those poor people married to each other, trying to work things out because they have kids and not knowing what to do and yet one party refuses to go beyond ME FIRST. I have been married and in a similar situation and the only way out was to remove myself from the situation. I have been married and I have been happy...happy is better. hehehe. Actually...in a seriousness, I have been married and happy at the same time, so I know it is achievable.
Don't worry that you called a few days ago. But yes, let him make the next move and if he doesn't, well then you know not to waste energy over him.
Good luck
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