Cheater

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-21-2004
Cheater
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Tue, 12-21-2004 - 10:02am
I recently became engaged. We met this past February, began living together immediately, and became engaged in November. Four months into the relationship I discovered that prior to meeting me he had been in a relationship for more than five years. He ended it when he met me. He never told me about it until I confronted him. Also, he has admitted to me that he has cheated in every relationship he has had but claims he has changed. Am I making a mistake??? We have been together for nine months. Am I rushing into this??
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-20-2004
In reply to: susan82004
Tue, 12-21-2004 - 10:10am
I'd be very leery. He's cheated in every single relationship...that would really worry me and what is the rush to get married so fast???
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-21-2004
In reply to: susan82004
Tue, 12-21-2004 - 10:34am
I am not so sure that I am doing the right thing. I question whether or not he can be faithful to me throughout our marriage. Perhaps we are rushing into this.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: susan82004
Wed, 12-22-2004 - 10:36pm
You've been rushing since you met him and now you're stopping to think maybe it's too fast? Too late now, but don't set a wedding date. It's never too late to slow down. The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior so if you ask Dr. PHil, yes, he's going to cheat on you, too.