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| Fri, 07-02-2004 - 8:48pm |
I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years now. I have been living with him for two years. I recently found out that he has been cheating on me for almost 11 months. I am having a hard time getting him to talk. He promised to break up with her but claims that he hasn't talked to her at work. It has been a week now. Can i trust him when he tells me that he has broke it off with her. I don't know how i can trust him again when everytime i try to talk to him, he ignores me or brushes me off. I've already tried to get him into counseling but he refuses. I don't know what to do.
any advise would be very welcome and helful.
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| Fri, 07-02-2004 - 11:08pm |
To me, this guy is giving you excuses. If he's cheating with this woman for 11 months he should have his home/cell number and he's making time by saying he hasn't called her at work. I wouldn't trust him. It's not your duty to get him into counseling, it's his and if he doesn't want to do it the it's not gonna happen. In your place I'd break up with him and tell him that when he's free and has gone over "calling her at work" he should call you and YOU will decide if YOU want him back. Sometimes you have to turn the tables around to your advantage and not let people walk over you and make you wait for them.
| Sat, 07-03-2004 - 10:50am |
3 years and he's cheating on you? What does that say about him?? What does that say about his maturity and commitment level and your future together? Once trust is lost, whether it be from lieing or an actual affair, it is sometimes impossible to get it back. I would say move on...don't you deserve better then this?
