Cheating can I forgive him
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Cheating can I forgive him
| Wed, 12-08-2004 - 11:10am |
I was a senior in highschool. Me and my boyfriend had been dating for 3 months. He was so sweet. I just got out of a serious 2 1/2 year relationship, but that didn't matter anymore. This was the guy I loved. We were talking about getting engaged and picked out a ring. Well a month later I was 18 and 2 months pregnant. He I guess got scared and cheated on me with a mutial friend. It was a non stop thing for a year. He would be with her for a couple months and then he would be with me. Well this got to the point where his parent's didn't like me but they loved her. They let her move in with him. That lasted about 2 months.We had a 3month pre-mature baby and we were together and then broke up again. But in July of this year he decided he wants to be with me. We have a house now and we have been together ever since. I know I am not as happy as I was because I was so hurt. I don't know what it is. This gril still comes around his mom and family but they are nice to me but I don't come around much because they don't like me. Like Thanksgiving this year she came over but I wasn't invited. Just things like that. Well 3 days ago she told a mutial friend of ours that she is engaged to another mutial friend. Ever since then my boyrfirend has been acting weird almost like he is sad. Do you think that I am just scared or what. Also he is not that nice to me. I mean he never says he loves me and he trys to show out infront of his friends. Like make fun of me infromt of them. Everyone knows that he is joking but still he doesn't do it when they are not around. Do you think this will ever work.

If you want to salvage this relationship - you have to confront these problems heads on. Hopefully your partner will work with you to fix these issues so that you can move on and have a productive, healthy, and loving relationship.
However, if he is not responsive and does not want to collaborate with you...it is simply not going to work.
You are still young, don't waste your life on someone who does not respect you.
Take care!
You don't want to see yourself as the one who gave your S.O. 5-6 chances to stop cheating on you and he is now asking for 10 more chances. Don't put yourself in that corner.