Chemistry

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Registered: 03-03-2008
Chemistry
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Sat, 03-22-2008 - 10:34pm

I've been dating a guy for a little while.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 11:37am

That's a shame. It is so hard to meet a nice person who is compatible on a number of levels.

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Registered: 03-03-2008
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 1:23pm
I really don't know what's turning me off.
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Registered: 10-21-2004
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 2:14pm

<< I really don't know what's turning me off.

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Registered: 03-03-2008
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 2:37pm
Thank you for your input.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 3:59pm

I've never had the experience of chemistry developing if it doesn't exist from the start but I know women who HAVE it develop, so never say never, I guess.


I've give it 5-6 dates and if it's still not there, then let it go.

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Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 5:30pm

Good thing starbuck came to the board because I never would have guessed that one.

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Registered: 12-27-2001
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 6:29pm
Wow, yeah, are you EVER making sense here. I'm having the same problem and it's a common one. In my case, after four dates, I've decided the guy is too much like an old man. He's very nice, makes an effort, but doesn't have a clue.

And that translates to what you said! No fun fun fun! Everyone's idea of fun is different and I know I need the banter, the flirtation, and the active stuff--dancing, hiking, whatever.

But f-u-n covers it--it's just your personal interpretation of what that means.

Clarifies it for me!
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Registered: 03-03-2008
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 7:00pm
Interesting.
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Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 11:20pm

"Although actually in my situation it *did* turn me off when he kissed me (he's not a good kisser unfortunately) so I'm pretty sure it's not gonna happen."


bummer ...

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Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: straygirl911
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 11:33pm

"Everyone's idea of fun is different and I know I need the banter, the flirtation, and the active stuff--dancing, hiking, whatever. But f-u-n covers it--it's just your personal interpretation of what that means."


Everyone's idea of fun is different, I agree.

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