Choosing Between Two Guys

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Registered: 10-12-2004
Choosing Between Two Guys
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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 12:10pm
Hello. I am having a hard time making a decision between two guys. I met one guy who I like a lot and we started talking. There is nothing serious but we are considering the possibility. He has so many good qualities like he doesn't drink or smoke and he is very laid back. He also hasn't been calling or answering his phone and his excuse is that he left his phone at his baby's mother's house and he has her phone instead. Then the other night we were supposed to go to the movies and he told me that his 18 yr. old brother was sad because he did not want him to leave him. On the other hand one of my friends came to me and told me that he wants to start a relationship. I know this guy a lot more and I also like him. He does though have habits which guy#1 does not have. I do see him more often though and he is a little more open to me while the other guy is so laid back and rarely even speaks. I do not know who to choose or even what standards to choose by.
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Thu, 10-14-2004 - 2:59pm
Hello lilruby, welcome to the board!

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2004
Thu, 10-14-2004 - 3:57pm
The guy that cancelled on you due to his brother being sad, is not into you. When a guy is into you..he will move mountains to be with you. And honestly if you think about it...Don't you want a guy that would move mountains to be with you? Find that guy and focus all your energy and effort on him. He is the one that deserves it..not the guy who isn't into you.

Good Luck

Jodie

 

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