Commitment phobia?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2005
Commitment phobia?
2
Mon, 11-28-2005 - 12:50pm
I think I'm a player. I tend to flirt alot when I go out with my friends, even when I'm in a relationship. I meet new guys and they always seem better than my current boyfriend. I don't know what to do because I don't want to be single forever!
Avatar for barbrocks
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2003
Tue, 11-29-2005 - 1:38am

Being single isn't so bad! Especailly if you are a flirt, and like to meet many men. don't worry about being single, at this point.

I WOULD worry about the straying from your current boyfriend. If you are going to have an exclusive relationship, then you need to respect him enough not to go scamming on other men. If you don't really want to be in a committment, then don't be!

And, remember, the grass is ALWAYS greener ont he other side. People we don't know seem so great because: there's a mystery, you don't know their ugly side, you haven't seen their bad habits, it's a conquest!

When the right guy comes along, you won't want to stray. No one will look better than him.

Don't sweat it... enjoy yourself now.

Barb

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2005
Tue, 11-29-2005 - 5:01pm
Thanks Barb, I needed to hear that. It's just that I'm in a long-distance relationship, so it makes it that even harder. But I'm gonna hang in there...if it's meant to be with this guy I don't wanna lose it cuz of a new guy I just met.