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Comparing men Ladies?
| Sat, 07-17-2004 - 2:59am |
Ok ladies i have a few questions for you!
You and your man who is now your x part ways. Do you look for the same or better with the next guy? Do you dump him if he's not up to par with the x in any way? Do you compare your new lover with the x?

i can answer from personal perspective only - my x was a great guy and the most caring bf in the world. i surely want my next relationship be as strong and loving as the previous one.
but it does'nt mean that i'll be looking for the exact same type, same personality, etc and will be comparing every word he'll say. it will be a completely different person. i think everyone has some core values they hold on to in relationship so one can see similar trends, but only to that extent
after my 1st serious rel'shp, i was definitely looking for someone better
but i met someone last year...and i wish i could find someone just like him
Do you dump him if he's not up to par with the x in any way?
not right away, b/c i think there's always room for improvement. if there is no improvement and i cant see a future w/ them then yes, its terminated
Do you compare your new lover with the x?
YES!!!!! we had amazing sex since day 1 and its hard to compete
though i know it can improve, its hard not to compare
Edited 7/17/2004 12:17 pm ET ET by hockeybabe83