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| Fri, 01-27-2006 - 8:12am |
To clear everything up, Ben is not engaged and hasn't been for a year. I understand that we won't be together just because of this baby. I just don't know how to tell him...... I did confirm pregnancy. I ould never end any pregnancy. I know that Ben would not leave me hanging, if anything we would fight over who would raise our baby. The proble still remains that Ben is very sensitive and I dont kow how to tell him. Thanks for all the advice. And to the person who was wondering how I got pregnant using and IUD, they are just like condoms 99.9% efective, so they can fail. NO I was not worried about any diesease, at least not from Ben. I have decided to go to his house this comming week and tell him in person.
Thanks Again,
and if anyone has any ideas please let me know

Honey, Ben is the least of your problems at this point. I don't care how sensitive he is, he needs to know now that you are pregnant so he can make necessary decisions. I'd watch closely how he handles this issue, it should give you some indication on which path you will take in the future.
If Ben turns this into "It's all about me" and doesn't care for your predicament, I'd suggest you think about a child support/visitation agreement and take it from there.