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confused
| Mon, 03-26-2007 - 6:56pm |
hoping someone can help me here. i met this guy through work. we've been talking since the beginning of january. we've been out a total of 5 times. we've never hugged, never kissed, nothing. now. i'm a very shy girl. it's hard for me to make eye contact with someone unless i totally trust them. he knows all this. anyways. he's the one who asked for my number. (we don't work together, he just happened to be at my job location that day) at first, we both would call each other. now, he's the one who always does the calling and the texting. i ALWAYS pick up or write back. however, we aren't getting anywhere with this. once again, no hugs, no kisses, nothing. he's got me confused. why would a guy who calls pretty much every day or send texts if he wasn't interested? am i the one who isn't showing the interest? i'm confused. oh. and we've never been to dinner. we've only met up after work. we both work till 3pm. we always go out and get a bite to eat (except the second time, we went to the mall). he always pays. i'm a simple girl and i don't think he's used to that. from what i hear, every girl he's dated has been a superficial fake person. he's got his own house and he once made good money. I think in his past relationships, the girls have taken advantage of that. That's another thing. We've never really talked about past relationships. i don't know. i'm confused. hope someone can help!!!
thanks!
thanks!

The best answer lies with him. I would just bring up the subject. Or, take the initiative and next time you see him, give him a big hug hello and a big hug goodbye. See how he responds and take it from there.
And let us know how it goes!