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| Thu, 05-18-2006 - 9:59pm |
A couple weeks ago I met this guy when I was out of town. He is actually a friend of a friend. He asked me for my number, and by the time I got home he called. Since then we've had great phone conversations. He offered to come to my city so that we could go out and invited me back to his. He also let me know that he was interested in dating me, and I responded positively to that. Before we ended the our last phone call, he went on and on about us keeping in contact with each other. He acted as though he didn't want to lose contact with me. I knew that wouldn't be a problem for me because I really liked him. After that I decided that I would attempt to initiate contact more than I had been. Well, it's been over a week since I've talked to him, and I've attempted to call a couple times with no answer. I know he has a very demanding job and a very busy schedule, but I, personally, feel that he could've returned my calls by now. I would like to talk to him, but I've decided not to call again. I just don't understand why he would act so interested, then "disappear". Any thoughts?

He said those things because at that moment in time he really wanted to maintain the relationship. However, once he was off the phone, his job, his friends, his life and anything else going on probably took up his time.
He might be really really busy, or he might just want to have a great conversation with a wonderful woman and then move on to the next thing in his life.
If he doesn't call back with a really good explanation for his absence, move on.
Life is too short to delve over him and these negative thoughts. Chin up and enjoy the day! :) :) :)