confused.

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Registered: 02-19-2006
confused.
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Sun, 02-19-2006 - 1:02am

confused and would like some feedback.

i met a guy last month who is a foreign exchange. we hit it off real well and have been hanging out 2 or 3 times a week, doing a lot, a lot of just one-on-one talking (once even a 3 hour conversation), partying, or studying. he appears to be the kind of quiet/shy type, but can still generate good convos.

he definitely knows i am interested because i've dropped the hint several times and furthermore a friend called me out on it in his presence. he was kind of comforting during that chaotic/embarrassing moment. we're still in contact and still hang out after that incident.

however, i am the one who initiates the inital contact 90% of the time (+ he's on prepaid calling), although when we are together he does indicate future plans to do other things together.

what to do? thanks!

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: haleys06
Sun, 02-19-2006 - 10:39am

Personally, I would back off and see what he does. We women have a tendency of running after guys when they're backing off. However, it seems to be much more realiable when we let them come to us.


So I would bring your contact initiation down to a minimum. Call him back when he calls you but don't call him as much. Also don't always be available for him.


Hope this helps... Keep us posted.