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Confused
| Sun, 10-10-2004 - 2:41pm |
I have been dating this guy for about 8 months now, and we never fully got along, but we try to sometimes and it has lasted this long. Well we arent officially "going out" right now, actually for the past 2 1/2 months. We have been seeing each other and I cant stand it. I try to make this guy so happy and I dont even feel semi important to him. I have been asking him if he wants to still see other people (obviosly i cant deal with that) and he tells me no i just want to be with you, and take things slow. Well this whole week we have been bickering and not getting along. He tells me last night he does want to see other people, he still doesnt know if he wants to be with me. It has been a while and i figure he should know by now, you either do or dont! Whenever I get upset or angry, he just brushes it off. If i tell him i dont want to talk to him, he is so ok with everything, but if he were to say that to me i cry! The more i think about it, the more clear it is and everyone tells me the same thing. He doesnt care, he isnt ready for a serious commitment and we are just no good for each other. I grew to love the boy, and he tells me he cares and loves me so much but then he does the complete opposite! Im trying to move past this, and slowly get rid of him and move on but I am so used to being with him and talking to him 24/7, and i cant stand change. Everyone who gives me advice tells me to just drop him, but we all know its not as easy as it sounds. I need some real advice from people who know what there talking about!! help!

i don't know if that is the advice that you really wanted, but it's the best that i could do. i hope that everything works out for you. good luck.