confused!

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Registered: 10-23-2003
confused!
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Sun, 09-26-2004 - 6:07pm
I had a date last saturday night-had a good time, the guy was nice, funny-took me to dinner and a movie-after the date was over he patted me on the shoulder and said I had fun and it was nice to meet you-I didn't know what to think of that-I don't know if he was being polite or what??? Anyway I texted mess. him a little bit later-thanking him again and asked if he would like to go out again-he said yes, after the date was over we still talked-all week, I asked him thursday night if he would like to get some icecream or do something sunday evening, he said yes. We talked friday afternoon-talked about meeting up at 7pm he said that should work-and here it is sunday adn I haven't heard from him. I don't know what's going on-he told me that his brothers b-day is this weekend.

Can you give me any insights on this-his he intrested or not?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: radelle1981
Sun, 09-26-2004 - 6:22pm
Well, if it's 6 PM or later where you are, then I'd say no, he's probably not. I think you have a case of him wanting to be polite to you rather than him having a genuine interest in seeing you again. That's why I always let the guy call...to avoid this very situation where you don't know if he's really interested, or just said he'd go out again to be polite.

Sheri