Confused

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Registered: 08-23-2004
Confused
Mon, 08-23-2004 - 2:26pm
Recently, me and my boyfriend just broke up. It was kind of a mutual decision and kinda of not. He is involved in so much two business and two organization that occupied a majority of his time. which in turns leaves no time for me. We had a great relationship we worked through problems and had fun. With all the stuff he has been involved with week by week its been getting worse with us. I just haven't felt like we have been in a relationship. I had been on him about figuring out a way to work this out I suggested taking time off two weeks ago and he didn't agree to that. So, we made kind of a promise that once a week we would go out we would talk every day and have the nights on the weekends. Well last week I told him I call him after I got done with an outing. well he did not pick up and did not call me to tell me what he was doing (being considerate of me and our promise) well I checked to see if he would call me first thing and he didn't. well I decided I could not keep going on like this. That night he had stopped by to drop off his dog which I watch while he goes to his meetings for his functions, he had came to pick him up and I had said I wanted this relationship but, not like this I kind of gave him an alta matem. Well he came over the next night to finish our discussion and he had figured that The only solution he had was for us to break up. He told me his mind is not with me when he is with me because he is overwhelmed and it is not fair to me. He said we would still be friends and to call him if I needed anything fix or etc... he said something about us going to happy hour. We talked for an hour afterwards. when it came time for him to leave he said that it felt cold. I told him this is the way he decided things to be. He told me he would be talking to me. I asked him what that meant he said he would call me. I said I wouldn't count my chicken before they hatched and he looked puzzled. Then I said goodbye see ya to him. this weekend past and he had a dinner thing that one of my guy friend were at and another guy that I think is cute. Well they got talking about my X boyfriend with him standing there saying how cool I was and my guy friend was like he messed that up. He did not know that I had talked to my guy friend and he had knew we broke up he acted like he didn't know and he needed to call me. So, will he call me and what will happen with this ??? ADVICE PLEASE