Confused

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Registered: 05-20-2004
Confused
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Mon, 07-12-2004 - 12:32pm
My ex-boyfriend and I dated for 3 years. And when we broke up (on good terms) we decided that we needed to be civil for the sake of all of our mutal friends. And that has not been a problem until a few weeks ago we all went out and I wound up at his place. Well things haven't really been any differnt but now he is telling me that he loves me again but he is not sure if I am what he truly wants. I just don't understand how you could love someone and want to be with them and call them everyday like you never broke up but don't know if that is who you want to be with. If anyone can help me I would appreciate it.
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Registered: 05-05-2003
In reply to: jforet13
Tue, 07-13-2004 - 10:24am
So in other words: thanks for the sex, but I don't want a commitment.

He doesn't love you, if he did he would have thought first about your feelings, and not his own pleasure. It was fine to sleep with you, but then the next morning he realized that you might want more from him. Don't bother with this guy, he will never want that commitment with you. Find someone who respects you and your feelings.

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