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confused
| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 10:03pm |
my question is i broke up w/ my kids father 3 yrs ago because he started cheating on me w/ a girl i thought was my friend. I well started seeing somebody not to long ago and i feel great with him and i'm happy but the thing is that i closed all my feelings for any man because i don't want to get hurt again 7 yrs is alot and i don't know how to act around another man or have sex with them.. I feel so confused because my mistake i made was i still kept sleeping w/ my ex and i feel weird because he's with this chick.. please i need some advice and i'm 26 yrs old i can't open up to nobody because people don't understand me i care for my ex but i don't want to be w/ him. I need to try to move on and i can't.. I need to try to let go of the fear of getting together w/ another man. I don't know how to do it..
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| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 11:55pm |
Allow yourself time and space to heal your heart. Instead of looking for another romantic partner, why not try friendship instead?
| Mon, 07-12-2004 - 1:14pm |
Relax. You need to heal from the past before you can move onto the present and future. You may need to seek counselling to help you heal. Whatever you chose, you should not be dating anyone until you get yourself into a better space. You don't want to do anything you regret, right? So start a journal and get out all the worries and frustrations you have and try to see what you can learn about yourself from all this.

