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| Tue, 04-06-2004 - 8:08pm |
I met a man many months ago while I was going through my seperation from my ex-husband. At the time I had just filed for a divorce. I was not doing very well and although I liked this man very much, I did not behave quite right so although I really liked him and he seemed to like me, and he promised to keep in touch, I never heard from him again. I was upset, thinking he had been stringing me along and considered that cruel since he knew what I was going through.
I considered the whole thing bad timing, a rebound,& my fault, and decided to wait on getting involved with any man until I felt better.
Now, many months later I have come to realize (I am about 99% sure - still waiting for last confirmation, which I hope I will get!) that he has done something enormously nice for me a week or so after our last phone call, without telling me that it is from him. I believe he has in fact helped make a childhood dream come true, which we talked briefly about while we were together for that short amount of time.
Once I am 100% sure I will try contacting him and thanking him, but I am still confused as to what this means. Why would a man never call you back and completely lose touch with you, knowing he'll probably never see you again, but do something so enormous for you, thinking that you probably won't guess it is from him?
Maria

Sometimes people come into our lives and they are blessings--they fulfill childhood dreams or are an answer to our prayers. For whatever reason, this guy did that. If he wanted it to be known that it was him doing it, I think he would have left a "calling card."
Thank your lucky stars that you were so fortunate and rather than call him, do something in return for someone else--share the wealth, so to speak.
I know this isn't the answer you wanted to hear...
Keep us posted.
Strange, but I suppose sometimes these things do happen in life. I guess I might never understand the real motivation, but it probably doesn't even matter. Most probably, he was just a nice guy trying to make a difference...
Thanks,
Maria