confused about new guy's behavior
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confused about new guy's behavior
| Thu, 04-01-2004 - 12:31pm |
About a week and 1/2 ago my coworkers fixed me up with the fedex driver that comes into work.(this was a Friday). He gave me his cell and home number and then called me on Sat. and Sun. so we could talk. We seemed to have much in common and he was making plans to see me outside of work. We met for lunch on Mon. and he asked if I would be home that night and he would call me. ---He never called. I'm totally confused. I know he has just gotten out of a 2 year relationship. His ex ended it with him about 3 months ago. He is also a very busy guy. He said that was the reason his ex broke up with him. I like this guy and would like to see more of him, but his behavior is baffling??? I think maybe he got scared, but I don't know. What are the opinons out there?

I think it's much more likely that he's just an unreliable guy, rather than that he got scared.
I wouldn't spend too much of your time trying to analyze his behavior. That's just making assumptions and you don't know him well enough to even begin to do that -- you've never even met him! Just try to shrug it off and move on. If he calls, he calls. If not, not. Don't make it about you b/c it probably isn't.
She wrote that they had lunch on Monday...where did you get that they hadn't met?
Sheri
I tend to believe her. I'm 29, he's 32. I also gave him an out the other week, that if he didn't want to continue our "adventure" he should just tell me. His response was that he didn't bail on me, he just has been crazy busy. He even suggested we both take a day of work so we could spend some time together. Any words of encouragement???
P.S. I do have another life besides him. I think we just have to manage to get our schedules to coincide.
Sheri