confused and need answers please

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Registered: 04-16-2003
confused and need answers please
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Tue, 07-13-2004 - 2:10pm
a guy that i really liked and i broke up last year. we tried to remain friends for awhile but i realized that i still had strong feelings for him and couldnt see him with other girls. i ended it telling him how i felt and that i didnt want him to call me anymore. recently i have been seeing him around places and he always waves and acts friendly towards me. ia m not very friendly towards him because i didnt like the way he treated me towards the end of our realtionship. i am now over him and ready to forgive and forget. should i try being his friend. does his actions show that he wants to be friends or could this mean that he is single and wants to see how we can be? i am confuse because he never acted this way before. thanks
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Tue, 07-13-2004 - 2:39pm
Don't go reading more into the situation than there is. You guys broke up and you couldn't be friends afterwards. Now you claim to be over him, yet you're wondering whether he is single and wants to start things up again. Never assume what someone is thinking or feeling. You need to talk to him and see what he's up to. Don't start asking him if he wants to get back together. If you want to be friends with him, try being friends, but don't just be pretending to want to be his friend with other motives. It will still be hard to see him with other girls, no matter how *over* him you are.

I would say that he's probably wanting to be on a friend term, nothing more.

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Registered: 04-16-2003
Tue, 07-13-2004 - 3:13pm
thanks you for your response. i think i may be reading into this more than i should. i will just see what happens.