Confused and Spoiled

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Registered: 05-26-2004
Confused and Spoiled
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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 1:14pm
I am very confused, I met this guy over 2 months ago and we had been talking to each other via telephone and e-mail because he is in law school in another state. Well about 2 weeks ago I went to michigan to visit him and we had a wonderful time. Howeve, towards the end of the weekend he was on the phone for a while ( 20 minutes maybe more) with friends. And I was really sensitive by that and explained to him that I was mad at that. He did apologize and then he apologized even more on Monday by e-mail. I took the position that he did not like me. So on that Tuesday, I left a message stating that we had not talked and I was assuming that we were not friends. Well he did call back and I did not get the message until late and I called him the next day and he was busy. I have not talked to him since Thursday, I did e-mail him and apologized. But I have not gotten a response. I think that I blew. Should I chalk this one up?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-11-2004
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 1:23pm
Was this visit to Michigan the first time meeting in person? Cuz I think if it was, and even if it wasn't...you might've scared him by getting upset so quickly about something so little. I can understand that you didn't like him being on the phone for 20 minutes but with his friends, but he does have friends and maybe he's just not the type of guy that likes to ignore them, which I would consider to be a good thing. And if he apologized and then apologized again...why would you think it meant he didn't like you? I think if I'm catching this all correctly, if I was this guy, i'd be a little freaked out about how you handled it all. Don't throw the towel in yet though, I suggest maybe you try to talk to him and apologize yourself for overreacting...if you feel you did.

K