Confused in College
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Confused in College
| Wed, 01-04-2006 - 3:37pm |
Well I'm in college I started talking to this guy like 3 months ago. Everything was fine he called me all the time and I called him. We never really had long phone conversations but I would usually go over his house and he would come over mine. Sometimes I would cook dinner for him after he got off of work because I knew that he would be hungry. He is from north carolina and I'm from maryland, so when the break began I came home to work at my old job. He stayed in NC to work at his job. I used to talk to him everyday, but since I have been at home I have probably talked to him like 6-7 times. Our winter break is for a month. I know that he has been working extra hours since school is out and he now has the time and I have been doing the same as well. But what I wanted to know is why the sudden change? And when I return back to school should I just act like it never bothered me or do I let him know how I feel?

From what I gather, it sounds like you're casually dating which means no commitment. The reasons for him not calling may be because he's busy catching up with friends, working, etc. I would say it's too early to expect him to keep constant contact with you. But what I would suggest is to back off a bit. Do not pursue him.
When you get back to school, let things settle in. If it's still bothering you, mention it but in a very casual way. Personally though, I think I'd probably let it go because nothing was established beforehand. Next time though, you can always establish keeping stronger contact when you're both back home.
Hope this helps.
It's different when you're not in the same place,