confused! plz help!

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Registered: 09-12-2004
confused! plz help!
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Sun, 09-12-2004 - 10:24pm
i need some advice! i dated a guy for 4 years. he proposed to me and i said no. he was my highschool sweeheart and i felt like i was to young to get married so we broke up! but we got back together. then one day it was all over. he wouldnteven speak to me. In the past in our realtionship i cheated on him. i know it was terrible! but i did. neway we have been broke up fpr 2 years and now im 21 and hes 24. i have thought about him ever single day. i have been thinkin about tellin him that im still in love with him and i never stop thinkin about him. i do stil love him. i just think that im goin to get my heart broken. im scard hes goin to settle down and i will never get a chance to tell him. so what do yal think????????????????
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Thu, 09-16-2004 - 7:58am
Hello lishadunagan!

 
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Registered: 06-13-2003
Thu, 09-16-2004 - 9:38am
I think maybe it would go over better if you wrote him a letter. In the letter not only tell him how you feel, but apologize for what you've done that hurt him. Don't expect anything to come from it though. If anyting see it as a chance to get all those feelings off your chest and experience freedom from the "what if" worrying.

I wish you the best.