Confusion

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Registered: 10-05-2004
Confusion
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Tue, 10-05-2004 - 10:10pm
I met this man online and he is a great guy and he was such a gentleman, but I am so scared of losing him. I am 30 years old. What is too much when trying to get to know a new person that you are interested in.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: tonyiaz
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 8:33am
tonyiaz...

Pianoguy thinks that new couples (or individuals who have an interest in each other) have a tendency to "rush things too quickly!" In other words...they communicate 3 or 4 times a day...by email, phone, text...or in combination. Eventually...the couple runs out of stuff to talk about and gets frustrated.

I can understand your insecurity...but there's really NO SECURITY in anything that involves a relationship with another human being. If you think the 2 of you will get 'up close and personal' with each other down the road, make a few suggestions about a rendevous and see how this man responds. He'll let you know if he wants to go beyond the 'penpal' stage!

Just don't push him too hard, okay? GOOD LUCK!

Pianoguy